Being a mother

I know this is absolutely random but, today I did shitload of housework and realised a lot of things. How I ironed the clothes and no one would thank me, how I cleaned the dishes and get scolded, how I washed the smelly toilet as expected. Being a mother has got to be the toughest job ever. You don't get paid, instead getting scolded, cold shouldered, and it's only mother's day you receive a thanks for doing shit for the rest 364 days of the year.

The worst part of being a mother is being pregnant and unable to moves around easily. She spends half the time on bed because she is experiencing great pain no one can share with. She wants to have sex with her husband again but because of their little loved one, she chooses to stop the addiction ( I mean, who knows?). The process of giving birth to us must have been hell for them. Most of the women who was in the process of giving birth would scream and shout that they want to stop this shit. However, these are empty words because they would rather endure this extreme pain than suffocate their little ones which they've made with love and carried around for so long.

Soon after we came out, they realised we left them stretch marks on their tummies which they did not have before.Fats were accumulated at every part of their body without mercy. At that moment when they looked into the mirror, they wished they could have their perfect figures  like before back, when we aren't born. Yet, these were again empty words because our angel smiles had made their regrets worth it. Our unearthly, annoying long cries must have killed their mood always. Still, they could satisfy our simple desires and again, endure.

I know that when we were at our rebellious periods they would want to hack us to death, then regretted giving birth to us. They blame themselves for believing in our deceiving angel smiles when we were young. The hopes they placed on us has gone down drain in wane, they thought.

They may be happy, they may get upset. Still, we are a product of what she and her man made with love. Deep inside her heart, she still loves us no matter what we do.

 ‎"Boys never realize or understand how much one little thing can upset a girl."

I guess this quote (from Lindsey's status on Facebook) doesn't only apply only to girls.


A toast to all our great mother for jeopardize their figure, life, and body for us!